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Idk if I could be happy with someone who didn’t go to college like me .. is that bad thinking?
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Anonymous 8w

I don’t think so. I don’t want to be with someone who isn’t on my intellectual level. I want someone who enjoys learning and is curious about the world!

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Anonymous 8w

No because this is my exact thought

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Anonymous 8w

I think if you’re against dating someone with a shorter technical degree that’s weird but in general wanting some further education is normal

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Anonymous 8w

i agree! one of my best friends is dating a blue collar man and while i don’t have anything against that or him, i just would personally never date someone without some sort of degree 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 8w

No I’m the same way. I don’t look down on people who didn’t go to college for whatever reason but I do want someone who’s at a similar stage in life as me and someone who values higher education and learning beyond high school. A lot of guys I’ve talked to who didn’t go to college have a “fuck school it’s a waste of money and time” angle that I just don’t appreciate. I gained a lot of really great life experience at my university and I want someone who did the same.

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Anonymous 8w

Whole thread is delusional

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Anonymous 8w

Just because somebody didn’t go to college doesn’t mean they’re not on the same intellectual level as you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Okay there’s this guy that didn’t go to college but he has a well enough job to own a house .. I still live with my mom so like wouldn’t he be doing better off with no degree idk if I can overlook no education tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I’m the exact same way. I love hardworking people who are passionate about learning the same way I am

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Honestly me personally I can’t overlook the whole no education thing but also he’s doing better off probably because he entered the workforce earlier than you since you’re still in college

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Anonymous 8w

nobody was saying that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

and it’s not like college guarantees good pay either LOL it’s about knowledge and growth

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Anonymous 8w

what

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Anonymous 8w

read the post?? she didn’t say anything about a job, just about getting an education

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Anonymous 8w

and I’m asking what you mean by “what she’s saying”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Love that! Must add I’m a teacher so education is just really important to me strictly for wanting to learn and grow your knowledge with college .. it’s always been important to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I get where you’re coming from 100%! I defend 2 year degrees because my bestie went to culinary school but I can’t imagine not wanting to study beyond high school. Or the people who use ai to do their work. Like do not even come near me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Yesss technical school counts for sure !!!

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