Im a confident girl but I have adhd and when I make friends I give so much. They usually show me that they love me but then I find out they’re fake. Is it because i should pace myself, do people prefer those who pace it? Or do i have a victim mindset?
Chasing dopamine makes u try and skip to the being besties part and ignore how short it took u to get there. It’s like being friends but not close is uncomfortable do either u over share or u just distance yourself from people if it’s too slow paced