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Girl Talk 12w
why do some girls let men talk to them the ways they do, if i were you hes getting bitch slapped fym
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Anonymous 12w

My self esteem used to be so low I was just happy a man was giving me the time of day….(un)surprisingly it’s a lot better now that I don’t let men treat me like trash or talk poorly to me lmaaaooo (pls free yourself of male validation if you’re struggling w this I promise it’s better)

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Anonymous 12w

lowkey I grew up around very reactive men who got scary when confronted or angry, so if a man I don’t know said something weird to me I might just freeze in place 🧍‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

but why a man? like, nothing makes me feel less validated than a creeper or an asshole, i know they don't actually like me for anything about me they just want pussy. like what's the thought process genq

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

i'm more talking abt the girls who are into that kind of behavior and disrespect and seek it out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

You just answered your own question, if you have low self image then you feel like no one would like any part of you so you should be happy with what you get no matter how bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

but why wouldn't you rather be alone? i've believed that about myself too, but still would always pick being alone over being poorly treated

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