I’ve had a situationship for like a year but we are also bestfriends, in the beginning before we did anything he asked my body count and I told him, since then it’s grown a bit but I know he would be upset if he found out this is driving me insane but I
i think you don’t need to tell him if you guys have no expectation of exclusivity. if he asks again then sure, but if the understanding is that you’re still both single then it’s ok
3
Anonymous11w
this is why I don’t do situationships. blur and confusion
2
Anonymous11w
Don’t want to start anything. Technically we were and still are just friends but i feel like i cheated on him even tho I didn’t and i know it would break him if he knew..?
1
Anonymous#111w
but if you know he doesn’t want you seeing other people then that’s a conversation you should have
3
Anonymous#111w
That’s kinda how I feel it’s just eating at me and I’m afraid if we do start dating I’m going to feel awful
1
AnonymousOP11w
nothing to feel awful about! if you’re single you’re single and you didn’t do anything wrong. does he think you’re exclusive?
2
Anonymous#111w
True and I don’t think so we never had a serious conversation about it
1
AnonymousOP11w
might be worth asking about. he might not care as much as you think! and if u do end up dating u can tell him then but really he can get upset but doesn’t have much of a case to be mad at you for