It’s not gonna hurt as bad as a Pap smear don’t worry! also your doctor was probably also heavy handed cause I never really feel mine it’s just a little uncomfy

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Foreplay is key! Use fingers, lube, and have an orgasm before he tries. Go slow and let your body adjust to each bit. It might be a bit uncomfortable or feel like stretching at first, but it shouldn’t be painful. If the pap was really bad, you may want to consider seeing a different doctor next time who’s gentler. And if it’s to the point where you can’t use tampons or fit a finger, look into vaginismus.

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