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Why do so many people want to get married before 25
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Anonymous 10w

im not hating on those who do, but i’ve seen too many young couples turn sour towards each other to ever dream of getting married young. i want to be a my own person, have my own job/money/home, before i could ever consider sharing that with someone else. it’d be irresponsible and maybe even disrespectful to the other person

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Anonymous 10w

If you want to, go for it, if you don’t want to, then don’t:) If people want to get married before 25 it’s because they’re happy in their relationship and/or are ready to settle down already

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Anonymous 10w

Not me girl 😭 I don’t wanna be a wife before my frontal lobe is developed

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Anonymous 10w

Probably insurance LMAO that's the only reason I'd get married that early 💀 been with my bf for 5 years and I still feel too young to get married at 24

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Anonymous 10w

I don’t

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Anonymous 10w

Personally, I've found the one whom my soul loves. I love him and I want to marry him and live my life with him. Marriage is something we do to become one unit. It's been my biggest dream to be a wife and a mother and I've found someone who makes me feel safe to be that. I also have a lot of familial support who'd be there for me if something went wrong, so I feel safe to marry him. He provides for me, he's trustworthy, he's been nothing but supportive so I want to be his wife

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Anonymous 10w

my friend is literally getting married in november after being with the guy for 5 months 🧍🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous 10w

Coz after 25 it’s all downhill unless you are lucky

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Same but like are we missing out on good men or giving them time to grow up and get their shit together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I personally want to have a long hoe phase until my early 30’s then I want to marry a younger guy in his 20’s

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

How is it downhill and why 25

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

The average age for first marriage in US is 30 for men 29 for women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

this has to be a man they’re the only ones dumb enough to think women peak at 25

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

my theory is it’s based in religion especially in the south where they have that whole “ring by spring” situation but idrk

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Like yeah of course men believe that, it’s when our brains are fully matured 😩

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Anonymous replying to -> iluvlanadelrey 10w

I’m scared for that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

she wants a whole family by the time she’s 25 so……………

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

My parents got engaged after one week, wedding 7 months later. Married 40 years. Sometimes it works out!

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10w

what if your husband’s frontal lobe never develops either 😃

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Anonymous replying to -> iluvlanadelrey 10w

Fuck it I’ll die single

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

I'm just ready for a life together and being married is what we want to do to start that life together

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

i hope yall prosper and grow i only wish the best for any soon to be/ already married folk i just know that ain’t for me (yet)

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

Thank you! It's not the path everyone chooses to take but it's the path I want to take!

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10w

Word for word girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

🤣

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