Do you guys feel the need to “clean off” discharge before having sex? Idk if this is actually something people think you need to do to be clean or if I’m being gaslit rn
Wdym like out of your underwear or like out of the actual vagina? Bc if it’s the underwear I’ve never had anyone inspect my underwear during sex lol but if it’s out of the actual vagina I don’t feel like it would matter since it would mix with your lubricant
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Anonymous10w
no 🤍
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Anonymous#110w
I think they mean your actual vagina, but like actual healthy discharge is usually just clearish fluid that’s supposed to be there and not dirty or any danger that would mix with nautical lubricant when you get aroused so I don’t get why you should have to wipe it before
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AnonymousOP10w
I agree I think you’re being gaslit bc it should just mix with everything they’re technically different fluids but it really shouldn’t matter if you have enough natural lubricant/ cervical mucus
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Anonymous#110w
Ok thank you bc I feel like I’m being convinced that I’m gross or something and it’s making me mad
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AnonymousOP10w
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AnonymousOP10w
Yeah girl idk what that person is on about like I get personal preference but we don’t need to add another thing for men to shame us for lol
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Anonymous#110w
I never care when there’s one person like that but what gets me is when they keep getting more and more upvotes and I’m like huh