Anonymous #1 10w

He’s not going to change

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Anonymous #1 10w

He definitely makes it seem like he is, even drove here yesterday 💔 I feel dumb

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Anonymous OP 10w

Nah, he just doesn’t want to loses access to you. Nothing about *him* is going to change.

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Anonymous OP 10w

Think about it. He wouldn’t have done that if he didn’t get caught. He never would have told you, I bet.

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Anonymous #1 10w

I said that too!, but his response was that he was going to tell me but he was guilty and i was like no shit

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Anonymous OP 10w

Dude my ex bf said the EXACT SAME THING. He said “I was going to tell you last night but you seemed so happy when I called you” YEAH BRO I WAS AND YOU DIDN’T TELL ME. So shut up!! He only feels bad bc he got caught.

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Anonymous #1 10w

Also saying “shut up” to the BFs not you !

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Anonymous #1 10w

haha no it’s okay!!, but yeah o was just so flabbergasted and my first day of school and i find out this

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Anonymous OP 10w

I’m so sorry that happened to you :( I highly recommend breaking up with him. I understand exactly how you feel and I know that you want to stay with him bc you think he might change, but he really won’t. He will disappoint you again. If he texted his ex, he’s clearly not over her.

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Anonymous #2 10w

Well she texted him first and he replied, he also told me that she was just a middle school thing that they never were serious (lied about that, they’ve been off and on for five years) but their conversations was about his life and how his past talking stage didn’t work out, he failed to mention me ever and she found out we were dating and showed me

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Anonymous OP 10w

That’s so disappointing sorry to hear that :/ but yeah I’d break up. A lot of the times if you forgive something they do it again just sneakier.

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Anonymous #2 10w

I know I definitely should, I feel like I just have such a big heart and i love this guy, I just don’t understand why he would do this

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Anonymous OP 10w

Like why lie abt it ?

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Anonymous #2 10w

just in general, like why would he even respond, and not tell me like it’s so hurtful

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Anonymous OP 10w

Yeah If a girl came to me with ss about my bf I’d be so embarrassed omg. I’d feel like her and her friends are laughing at us 🥴

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Anonymous #2 10w

she told me she wasn’t gonna tell nobody because it’s our business

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Anonymous OP 10w

Did he atleast apologize? :/

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Anonymous #2 10w

yes he did, he begged me to forgive him, he drove to my dorm we are at least three hours apart, and he begged to see me last night

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