Anonymous #3 1d

Literally a thank you message and OP felt like an essay was the right response? Alright if you dont want ppl saying thank you, you sound awful to be around

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Anonymous #2 1d

He can’t follow simple rules. The very first community rule before you join is “no men”.

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Anonymous #1 1d

This must be you lmao

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yep you’re def the man in my DMs

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Anonymous #1 1d

Baby…a thank you message from a man in a girl group..meaning he had to be in that girls group…if OP posted this to ask men or ask women or confessions or any other non woman exclusive group they’d have been fine. Like you got a whole brain up there use it

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Anonymous #1 1d

don’t expect courtesy from us when the #1 rule is no men. no means no.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yea I guess ur right I wasn’t trying to play devils advocate mb guys

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Anonymous OP 1d

nope you have issues tho

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Anonymous #4 1d

They did not comment so they broke no rules

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Anonymous #3 1d

The rules are men can’t COMMENT There is no rule on this app for what you see. They can’t ban what people read

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Anonymous OP 1d

Nope.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Dick riding a random man so hard and for what

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yes, and he could’ve just saw, but instead he sent her a private message about a post on a group he shouldn’t really be in. It’s weird. And why do you care so much??? Male centered af

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Anonymous #2 1d

I just feel like too a lot of guys cross boundaries but think because they’re nice it’s okay, sometimes they need to hear this.

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Anonymous #3 1d

A THANK YOU MESSAGE it’s not flirting or harassing like OP said Literally chill out

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Anonymous #3 1d

How about don’t come at me then? I said what I said You have an issue with someone THANKING you?? Hope no man says anything nice to you LOL

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Anonymous #1 23h

so is it that they didn't break a rule, or that they did but it’s “okay" because they said something nice? you're just trying to loophole a clear boundary and that's not gonna work lol. pathetic.

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Anonymous #4 23h

That’s not the gotcha you think it is Obviously it’s both NOT breaking rules AND nice Was that so hard to understand?

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Anonymous #4 23h

No “loophole” here. Don’t act like it’s harassing or flirting when it’s literally a thank you

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Anonymous #1 22h

Yes, in response to a group they’re not supposed to be in, OP is allowed to be mad over this. If he wanted to speak to women he could go to Ask Women. I don’t get why you’re fighting for this man so much

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Anonymous #1 22h

Context baby use that brain

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Anonymous #1 22h

we’re not acting like it’s harassing or flirting, we’re acting like it’s the boundary crossing that it is. the first rule is no men. women don’t post here to be engaged with by men, and nice men are no exception. if you’re not welcome under my comments, what makes you then think you’re welcome in my dms? i’m not being kind to a man who can’t understand basic boundaries tf

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Anonymous #4 22h

No OP literally said flirting and harassing Don’t say that if you don’t mean it 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #4 21h

Atp just block them, they’re extremely male centered if they’re not a man themselves and not someone i personally want to interact with

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Anonymous #1 21h

reread the post girl

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Anonymous #3 21h

yeah im 90% sure they’re being obtuse on purpose at this point if not just selectively reading, but at least they gave me a chance to spell it out for anyone else who can’t see how boundaries were crossed here

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Anonymous #1 21h

On top of you being wrong with your entire point, I never said that this DM specifically was flirting or harassing. I said I had experience with those things as well. Read the post again if you’re confused!

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Anonymous #4 21h

EXACTLY. They’re acting like I said THIS man was flirting and harassing. 😭 either she can’t read or this IS a man lmao

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Anonymous #4 21h

Thank you. Oh my God, someone with a brain. “B-b-but he was nice 🥺🥺🥺” …okay? And? Still not his place to be!

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