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907 upvotes, 68 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "always gonna keep this one tucked."
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Anonymous 7w

How did I just know at least one man was gonna comment on this 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous 7w

To #1: Restricting abortion access also hurts women who are pregnant and want their babies. So many women have died because they had complications and doctors weren’t allowed to give them the proper care because of laws. Other women are being forced to carry their dead babies (they also wanted) for weeks because of these laws. Even though the mother and the doctor both know the pregnancy is not viable and the mother will miscarriage. This puts women at risk of going septic and dying.

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Anonymous 7w

Holy shit this graphic is lowkey changing my life thank you, I’m about to post this shit everywhere

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Anonymous 7w

Did anyone screenshot the first comment? I’m super curious based on the rest

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Anonymous 7w

I'd say a blend of both graphs. Some people are good, some people evil, most people are average

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Anonymous 7w

i wish we were talking to an 11 year old because the haunting reality that you might be a voting member of society is infinitely worse

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Anonymous 7w

what about this isn’t accurate

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Anonymous 7w

yeah. if 75% of men were willing to step in, violence against women never would have been normalized to the point it is rn

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Anonymous 7w

those men voted to take bodily autonomy away from women. their interest is in protecting the country and their own interests, not women. i honestly can’t even believe you used cops as an example of good men. do more research into how often they sexually assault women they take into custody and the terrible record of following up on completed rape kits. if more cops were actually invested in protecting women, once again, violence against us wouldn’t be nearly as common as it is

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Anonymous 7w

you sound like a red pill loser

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Anonymous 7w

just stating facts. I have zero patience for stupidity at the moment

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Anonymous 7w

ywk i COULD ask you to explain how women’s lives are safer now that they’re forced to give birth but i really don’t think you care about them. you need to do more research into all of this before you waste any more of my time lol

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Anonymous 7w

you cannot be talking about community building when you’re sitting here acting like forced birth is an example of women being protected

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

literally. school starts in 2 weeks I do not have the energy to be putting dissertations in yikyak comments. the lack of education speaks for itself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

right like it’s 2026 regardless of your personal opinion on abortion the negative effect roe v wade being overturned has had on women is OBVIOUS to anyone with half a brain. if someone chooses to stay ignorant to that i’m not wasting my time talking to a brick wall lol

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Anonymous 7w

do you also think people who get into car accidents should be left to die? they knew the consequences. no one forced them to drive. should they be refused medical care because of that?

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Anonymous 7w

https://www.propublica.org/article/abortion-bans-deaths-state-maternal-mortality-committees

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Anonymous 7w

what happened to actions having consequences? or do you just see how ridiculous that logic is when it’s applied in literally any other medical situation

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Anonymous 7w

GTFO moid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

This dude probably believes anyone who gets in a car accident deserves to be left there bleeding out on the road because it’s their fault for getting in a car

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Anonymous 7w

so you think medical care should be denied in both situations? what if the person hadn’t been drinking? what if it was just bad luck? should they be also be left to die? they knew the consequences of getting into a crash when they got into the car

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i don’t think he does tho! bc as soon as u brought it up the convo went from being all about consequences to “ohh umm i just want to save lives!” like he clearly knows accepting risk doesn’t mean medical care is automatically denied. he just refuses to admit his logic makes no sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

*i lol

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Anonymous 7w

the original argument was about having access to medical care to deal with the consequences of your actions. that’s the exact same logic i used with the car accident example

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Men like this only care about punishing and shaming women, if they truly cares about quality of live he wouldn’t want to force pregnancy on people or tell people who get in accidents that they should lie there and accept their injuries

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Quality of life*

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Anonymous 7w

yes. and engaging in risky behavior has bo medical precedent for being denied treatment. why should that change when a woman no longer wants to be pregnant? there’s also no medical precedent for forcing someone to use their body/organs/blood to sustain another life, even when their actions are directly responsible for the situation. a driver could hit a kid and be told all it would take would be a drop of blood to save their life, and that driver STILL wouldn’t be forced to use their body

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Anonymous 7w

even parents aren’t required to donate organs to their child, even if they are a match, even if that child would die without it. why are women the only ones who you believe should be forced to give up their bodies?

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Anonymous 7w

Why do you assume everyone who gets in a car accident is reckless? You are VERY detached from reality

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Anonymous 7w

okay so you don’t think medical intervention should be offered to those engaging in risky behavior?

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Anonymous 7w

Keep whining you pathetic male, at the end of the day I’d still be aborting if I got pregnant and nobody would be stopping it😂

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Anonymous 7w

Banning legal abortions doesn’t actually prevent them from happening, it just makes women seek out unsafe and sometimes fatal means of aborting privately. So all banning abortion does is kill women

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Anyways #1 I very sincerely hope you get in a violent car accident and are left on the side of the road to bleed out while nobody helps you, since that’s what you would’ve wanted for yourself

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Anonymous 7w

then you better stop eating and drinking because you could choke, and in YOUR perfect world, no one would be able to save you because you weighed the risks and chose to do it anyway. a pregnant woman could be driving to the hospital for a checkup, get into a crash, and because she weighed the risks of getting into a car, she should be left to die. if someone attacked you you shouldn’t be offered any help because you weighed the risk of walking outside. that’s the world you want? really?

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Anonymous 7w

that’s different from not having any options to deal with the consequences of that risk tho. everyone already weighs the risk of everything - i did it with this convo! i risked that you wouldn’t actually listen to anything i said and i was right. but im not being forced to continue this convo, even though i originally agreed to it. if i get bored or decide i want to do something else, i have the option to do that. accepting risk ≠ no options

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Anonymous 7w

“no one is forcing you to do anything with your body except you” have you ever heard of something called rape?

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Anonymous 7w

you said that about car crashes, lil bro

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Anonymous 7w

it literally does though. if i get into a car crash and break my arm, im treated for that injury. no one shrugs and goes “well treating you would be avoiding the consequence of your crash! enjoy having a broken arm forever!” just like a woman shouldn’t be forced to have her body go through all the changes of pregnancy and birth, which are much MUCH worse than a broken arm

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Anonymous 7w

i actually can’t take you seriously anymore. littlest bro. oh my god. are you 12?? 😭😭

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Anonymous 7w

adoption is an alternative for parenting, not pregnancy. no one forces an individual with a broken arm to keep it broken for nine months to teach them a lesson. “you got pregnant when you didn’t want to be, the consequence is an expensive and often painful medical procedure” not “you will be forced to give your body up for 9 months, risking permanent disability and death”

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Anonymous 7w

so you’re 11 got it

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Anonymous 7w

a better question is why are you even in “girl talk”

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Anonymous 7w

yeah. that’s my point. an abortion also takes time to recover from. but if you injured your spine, even if it was 100% preventable and 100% your fault, no one is forcing you to deal with that injury for longer than you have to, and no one is forcing you to risk even greater injury because you ‘need to be taught a lesson’. which is a really gross way to look at pregnancy and birth and says a LOT about your views on women

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Anonymous 7w

Dude why tf would you say weird shit like this

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Anonymous 7w

yeah. and for the third time, the consequence of an unwanted pregnancy is an abortion. if you killed someone who was literally inside you and using your body without consent, that would be a pretty obvious case of self defense

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

projection probably

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Anonymous 7w

If the first comment was the clue that you’re a man, this one is. When do the cops bring men who harm women into justice? And when have you or your friend personally stepped in to help a woman in trouble? Women are the ones who protect women

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Anonymous 7w

No

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Anonymous 7w

Hey so.. you’re obviously an ignoramus, just wanted to make that clear first - you need to know take a real honest look at reality from an objective perspective and drop your defense for men - you are not responsible for defending men , real men are the hero’s that see how dangerous it is to be a woman. I read all ur comments and I think you are a dangerous idiot and sadly there are so many men like you . I weep for the women in your life and pray you find truth and compassion one day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

It said I can’t believe you think men think like this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Wow I’ve heard of people reading other people’s thoughts but I’ve never heard of someone not being able to recognize their own thoughts before

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

You say you care about saving all lives will supporting legislation that actively harms and kills women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

I wouldn’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

ideally yes, but humans are too complex to have set in stone categories like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

the issue is that a lot of men don't conceptualize SA as evil and are taught from a young age that women are objects and they don't realize the long term negative impact that even sexual harassment causes women. you should research some studies, there's a ton out there about the amount of college age men who have self admittedly committed SA or do would do it if there would be no consequences for it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

exactly it’s a spectrum. this is also about how men uphold patriarchy whether by overt harm or nonaction. not general human morality

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Anonymous 7w

Imagine thinking we don’t 🥱💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

#1 is either 100% rage baiting or using 0% of their noggin I suggest we all block them or disengage

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Not even denying the man allegations

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Anonymous 7w

I knew I should have blocked you yesterday lmfao you’re having too much fun being an idiot rn

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Anonymous 7w

the only reason you’re not blocked rn is bc I wanted you to get learned but you don’t really seem to be taking to it so say goodbye to everyone sweetie

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Anonymous 7w

you’re about to be really bored now. watch this

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Anonymous 7w

“Imagine thinking we live in something we do in fact live in”

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

about number 1

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Anonymous 7w

other men bro. it’s all cyclical

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Anonymous 7w

it’s not 50%. some of the men i thought were so kind and fun and cared about me as a friend abandoned me the second their friend was the one who wronged me.

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Anonymous 7w

I would say in my personal experience about 90% of men are a bit pink at least. But that’s the whole point— men who fall in the pink sections are not evil, but they are contributing whether they know it or not.

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Anonymous 7w

you’re literally making assumptions based on your experience as a man. i’m just giving an example as to why more men than you may think fall into the pink zone

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Anonymous 7w

If I offered you a box of whoppers and told you five were actually shit balls in chocolate, you’d probably eat none of them. Unless you’re a moron

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Anonymous 7w

notice how your analogy is nothing like theirs

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Anonymous 7w

Notice how you’re a moron and are being purposefully obtuse 😃 also I don’t drink so you’re right your point is null

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Anonymous 7w

literally millions of women have had the same exact experiences and have spoken on it and you are STILL coming up in here trying to make a blanket statement for people you don’t even know. this post contains so much nuance that you will never understand without having been on the receiving end of some of this behavior. you cannot see it because you have never lived it

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

this post is not a blanket statement on men because there is in fact a very large scale of men who have had misogynistic influences in one way or another because society is inherently misogynistic, and that manifests in a myriad of ways. there is NO way that 50% of men are just “good and kind and will always step in when someone is in need”

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Anonymous 7w

ultimately you’re just proving how true this chart is 😂 how many women do you have in your family? guaranteed more than one of them can tell you a story about being “unlucky”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

bro thinks he’s in the white zone… brother you are closer to the dark red than you want to admit

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

they alwayssss go mute when I ask them that question. for good damn reason

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Anonymous 7w

this isn’t about being wronged this is specifically about gender based oppression and violence. go ask your female family members about their “unluckiness” and get back. quite frankly you sound like a predator yourself.

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Anonymous 7w

and once again this is not about human morality it’s about misogyny. correct me if I’m wrong, are you suggesting that gender based violence isn’t skewed towards female victims? you couldn’t be that stupid.

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Anonymous 7w

the fact that you’re A. invading a chat meant for women and then B. telling us we’re just unlucky for experiencing everything that comes with misogyny says this chart is 100% true. truly truly disgusting.

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Anonymous 7w

your existence is the example. I’m embarrassed for your mother.

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Anonymous 7w

further proving the point. get out of the women’s group. very very embarrassing.

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Anonymous 7w

leave the group it’s for women loser.

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Anonymous 7w

like the one who birthed you. what a curse.

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Anonymous 7w

You’re literally just on here crying bc you feel called out by this chart. If the shoe doesn’t fit you’re not Cinderella. But I think that the shoe does fit since you’re invading a women only space, are mansplaining our lived experiences to us, and are refusing to admit you’re wrong. Also let’s not talk about how clouded my head is little guy. You thought your bullshit comparison was equal to mine. We all know where you fall on this graph buddy no need to get so worked up

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Anonymous 7w

Also baby it’s accused…..

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Anonymous 7w

Ok if you need to make yourself feel better that’s ok! Have your mommy tuck you back in but you’re still a dumbass

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Anonymous 7w

The chart reflects reality. I’m also not surprised you admit to being dark red so get your ass out of our space you piece of shit

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