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Girl Talk 15h
I need some advice the guy I’ve been talking to for 4 months (we talked about dating and planned on doing it very soon) stood me up on a date and dodged all my text for abut a week he finally explained why Gonna have to make a second part in the comments
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Anonymous 15h

and told me his girl bsf of 7-8 years confessed she had feelings for him and he never saw her in that light before but now he wants to see what it could potentially be like with her and he said he didn’t wanna come over bc he knew we might end up doing some stuff and it’d be fucked up to let her confess just to come over to my place (which Ik he’s still an ass for ignoring me) he also says he’s leaning closer to wanting to be with me but as of right now he’s unsure but I’ve never wanted to feel

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Anonymous 14h

oh hell no free him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Like and option so should I give him an ultimatum like “ hey I need you to choose right now because I’m not gonna sit and wait for you or should I be more understanding because of his long history with her or should i try my best to just move on from him all together

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

😭 tbh ik it was really fast but i started falling in love with him but im considering it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

if your one of his options he’s not the one for you

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