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My bf is struggling with making friends. He works two jobs and is in engineering so majority of his classmates are “losers” in his words. He doesn’t really have time to go to clubs or really do anything outside of school/work. What can I do to help him?
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Anonymous 31w

Mine is super shy and doesn’t really talk to people in clubs so I’m following to see

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Anonymous 31w

you can help him by telling him to be less judgmental and standoffish, and not to write people off so easily

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 31w

He won’t admit it but mines pretty shy too which doesn’t help

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 31w

I tell mine to go join a club and talk to people but he’s shy and he feels bad bc he’s a senior transfer and feels like everyone already has their established groups. I wish they had facebook groups for men bc that’s how I’ve met a lot of my friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 31w

I don’t really have any friends other than my lifelong bestie so I’m kind of in the same position, but I have people I know from class that I talk to some so idk. It does seem like it’s way harder to make friends as a guy if you’re not in a frat/sports team

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 31w

I’m trying 😭😭

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