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she’s been vaping sm lately. usually it’s not this much. it smells so bad and idk how to say it without coming across as rude or picky. like she lives here too and she should be comfortable but…..
roommate was vaping a lot in the living room tonight. love her but the smell is burned into my nose. it’s so gross and i hate it. how can i politely ask her to stop next time?
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Anonymous 4w

It’s a shared space and you have a right to ask for her to vape elsewhere. Just be nice about it and suggest that when you are home to please vape in her room

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Or tbh maybe she could switch flavors bc my fiancé vapes and I hated the smell of one and instead of saying no more we found one that not only doesn’t bother me but smells like lemon cake!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i think it is the flavor. bc the apartment smell didn’t bother me at all before but she just got this flavor and suddenly i cant stand the smell of it anymore. but idk how to ask or say something without it coming off as rude or upset her bc it’s a brand new flavor

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Just saw on the og post that you have asthma. Just tell her that this particular flavor has something in it that aggravates your asthma and makes it difficult to breathe so if she could smoke in her room or outside until it’s time to get another flavor that would be so helpful

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

“hey so something about this vape flavor has been slightly aggravating my asthma. last one was fine, but there’s something about this one. it hasn’t caused an attack yet but has been messing w it yk. until it’s time to get a new flavor, do you think you could use it in your room or outside? it would be v helpful” how is that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s a good way to put it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah I think it’s very respectful. It’s perfect. Like if you were my roommate and said that to me I’d totally understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

okay ty. just sent it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

No problem and good luck! Hopefully the next flavor isn’t so bad lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

update: so it actually is bothering my asthma lol (i have v sensitive lungs). but she texted back and immediately understood and thanked me for letting her know

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