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Girl Talk 8w
I’m not sure if I would be walking away to soon or if it would be the right choice. Like when do you know you should walk away?
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Anonymous 8w

if you’re having to think about walking away, it’s probably the right decision something about the relationship is making you unhappy and you deserve to make space for a more at peace state of mind 💛

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Anonymous 8w

Please tell me if you find out cause like I feel like he doesn’t care but then he says the perfect thing but then there’s not so much follow through but he’s always got excuses that are hard to challenge and sometimes mental health which I’m struggling with too but like I just don’t know if we’re compatible anymore but all of our interests are so similar and he seemed so perfect at the start but it’s like he just doesn’t want to talk but he swears he does and I don’t want to go if he really does

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I feel pretty similar. We are long distance, but he’s great most of the time. But he puts all the blame on me for communication, yet he just defends himself when I tell him how I feel. He has done so much for me and we were so perfect when he was here. There’s just a disconnect and somethings he’s said cannot be unsaid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

If he has said things that you won’t ever be able to stop thinking about that can be so draining just thinking about it all the time and like you’re always going to have that view of him and how hurtful he can be towards someone who only wants good for him so I can’t say I would leave him cause obviously we’re not good at that but it would definitely be at the top of the cons list and probs something I would tell him when I feel like cutting him off

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

(And then I’d see how he responds to that cause last time I told him that I felt like he didn’t want to talk to me he was like “well if I’m making you unhappy I don’t want you to stay but that’s not how I feel” and now that I’m typing it out I realize how stupid I am like wtf kinda answer is that but I can’t cut him off over that now it was like 6 months ago💀😂

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