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I think my definition of femininity is kind of different— I don’t expect femininity to be “quiet and shy” I think that’s ridiculous. I think feminine means alluring and having open energy (attracting many people), a feminine woman is loud and happy to me
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Anonymous 11w

i think your take is a more male gaze view of femininity, i don’t think femininity is about how you appeal to others. but i respect your opinion and know people view this differently

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Anonymous 11w

Ofcourse being feminine isn’t the only trait a woman can have I think it’s better to just be yourself and not let society define you. Usually these “gender traits” are already viewed differently throughout time and always changing. This is just what I feel.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I come from a culture where society rewards women who are feminine in a reserved and quiet way, a way where they can’t be seen or heard. I think that’s why I hate that.

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