my ex told me he was transferring to my uni after we were having a lot of relationship problems. broke up w him right then and there and its the best choice ive ever made. NEVER make any college or career choices cuz of a highschool bf

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my hg did this and they broke up as SOON as she transferred for him. I promise you girls it’s not worth it

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my ex got mad i didnt want to go to the same college as him and i told him idgaf its my education

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if you’re in a healthy long term relationship i believe it’s okay to at least consider proximity to your partner when it comes to making choices about school or jobs…my bf or i wouldn’t just accept a job that was extremely far away from each other without thought.

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Absolutely agree w/ this. I stuck it out 7 hours away from home for a man I thought was the loml just for the relationship to go to absolute chaos and making less friends b/c I was making him the center of everything over my education/hobbies/etc

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Wish you were there for me before I decided to go to a uni, just to end up failing an entire spring semester for my first year, and now I'm playing catch up to my friends who graduated from their specified schools like yesterday😭😭😭😭😭 ladies take this advice with your life you genuinely don't have time to be playing around for some lame ass dude

10

Don’t do it yall!!

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fr the absolute only time i ever saw this work was when my friend and her bf had already been dating for years and lived in the same city for a majority of their relationship before the long distance

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He’s moving to come be with me soon 🫣

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Or girl🥲

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but what if he’s the loml :(

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