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Might be a hot take but I despise women who say “men are easier to talk to” or “it’s easier to be friends with men”, just tell me you’re a pathetic incel bitch. It’s not hard to talk to other women, you just don’t respect your own gender.
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Anonymous 15h

I mean I get where you’re coming from but I feel like it’s not really disrespect so much as the dynamics and nuances are very different when it comes to men and women. Like men with all due respect, usually have a lot less awareness or thoughts going on at any given moment. They’re very in the moment and talking with them is usually a lot more casual and surface level. Tend to say things in their head without thinking.

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Anonymous 15h

women are the easiest to talk to imo but the only men in my life growing up were my dad and uncle and one cousin like men are so scary to me cuz i was surrounded by women my entire life 😭 i am always a bit intimidated at first but im always so comfy so fast with girls. i didnt even have any male friends growing up

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Women on the other hand have a lot more going on, plus have to be a lot more wary and on guard. Dynamics get more complicated esp in bigger friend groups. Because everyone is more aware you yourself need a certain level of awareness. And not everyone has that sort of social awareness. Which can be intimidating

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Now will I say all girls who say it’s easier to talk to men aren’t femcels? No. There is definitely girls like that, but sometimes it can just be intimidating (I say this as someone who used to feel this way, though not only with girls)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Ya I agree with you but I’m also really tired or running into other girls especially in my adult age that find it easier to talk to men and it just feels odd to me. Also most of them unfortunately have some kind of animosity or something against other women sometimes. Maybe it’s because I keep encountering them in certain stem clubs and classes and I get it but I don’t get it yk? Like can you have a respectful conversation with me instead of making excuses for why you can’t make female friends?

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