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For context: my mom and I go to the same gym so she has gym friends; I just went to the gym and my mom and I do separate things but go sauna together afterwards and we ran into one of her friends in the sauna. We were talking about therapy (1/2)!!
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Anonymous 12w

And relationships, and I mentioned how I just broke up w my ex. And all of us were talking about how awful men are in general. Eventually a random older lady in the sauna chimed in how she was single for 48 years and married for the last ten.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Both my moms friend and the older woman were well over 40, and were just telling me to never ever settle, and revealing small things about my ex they were like GOOD you have soo much life left still. Anyways. Never settle girlies. Ever. Your man is out there and he will treat you right. And it’s okay if it takes awhile.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Build up your life how YOU want it, be obsessed with your life and YOU. And what YOURE doing. That way when you do get into a relationship, you’re not obsessed with them. You do not need them!!! I love you all and I hope the wisdom these ladies shared is nice for everyone here too<3 we are amazing, men should never ever have any power over you. Do not let that happen!!!

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