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Girl Talk 12w
My evil ex apparently considers me ‘the one that got away’ and thinks about what could have been despite being in a long term committed relationship. How do I make him stop
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Anonymous 12w

Block him on everything and get a restraining order if he’s pulling up irl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

He’s blocked on snap but we have a mutual friend so I see him occasionally at events. He’s not dangerous but I just don’t like the idea of him romanticizing me in his head

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Who’s telling you that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Our mutual friend who is a very good friend to both of us. They’ve talked about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Sounds like you need to ask that friend to stop giving you updates about the ex. That’s not healthy and it’s letting him live rent free in your head

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I honestly don’t think about him lmao, my friend brought it up last night to let me know in case he tries to “clear the air”. I was just wondering if there was something I could do to bring him back to reality

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