Girl Talk on Sidechat | Soo my best friend and I met at college. We talked, texted, and hung out a lot. Now it’s summer and I really only hear from her if I reach out first. Should I text her and ask if we’re good or just let it be?

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Girl Talk 12w

Soo my best friend and I met at college. We talked, texted, and hung out a lot. Now it’s summer and I really only hear from her if I reach out first. Should I text her and ask if we’re good or just let it be?

Anonymous 12w

i’m also really bad about going mia during the summer, but i still love my friends and love hanging out. i’d check in on her and make sure she’s doing alright!

Anonymous 12w

just let it be. true friendship is about reciprocation it sounds like you’ve reached out first multiple times. this is not a fandom

Anonymous

#2 12w

That’s what I was thinking! I’d hate to lose our friendship but on the other hand I shouldn’t be the only one trying.

Anonymous

#1 12w

I was thinking of doing this but why do I always have to be the one to reach out

Anonymous

#1 12w

Also, she posts pictures texting with other friends and hanging out with them so it just hurts that she can’t even send a text or even a snap since she’s on her phone all the time lol

Anonymous

OP 12w

ooooooh see that’s different. this sounds like she might be intentionally distancing herself. if it’s a friendship you want to keep, i’d still reach out and see what changed, otherwise good riddance

Anonymous

#1 12w

Yeah that’s what I was thinking! It’s just kinda odd because nothing happened for her to be doing that. I was thinking of asking if everything is all good to see what she says.

Anonymous

#1 12w

As soon as I started typing she said she’s just been on vacation and so busy. But like I’ve been my absolute busiest and stressed and still been able to be there for her.