
I have sa trauma and my bf would do that obviously as a joke bc he would smile after and cuddle up w me. But one time I told him “I don’t like when you do that” he clarified he never meant it as anything but a joke and never did it again. Same with other things I’ve made boundaries over. And he hasn’t broken any of them sense
Like if he feels bad and wants to spend the night because he likes people when he’s upset but I’m tired and want to be alone, sometimes I’ll manage to say no to him and then he pouts about it and I’ll give in Or if I say I’m not hungry and don’t want to go to the cafeteria at the usual time, he’ll pout until I go which just leads to me not eating enough and then being hungry again later