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this sounds so pick me but i feel like actually zero guys are attracted to me and then i feel like a fat ugly chud like what’s wrong with me why do men not talk to me at all i feel like i will never get a boyfriend
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Anonymous 11w

Felt the same way for years until I got a boyfriend and it was not all it was hyped up to be. Male validation means nothing, don’t use it as a scale to prove your attractiveness and worth. You’re perfect how you are and the right man will find you one day, there’s someone for everyone 💕💕

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Anonymous 11w

As someone who went from chuzz to huzz, I understand wanting male attention. But once you actually do get it, 90% of the time it doesn’t lead to anything valuable or even pleasurable beyond the short term, if that. Now I know you probably don’t want to hear that…

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Anonymous 11w

Because you subconsciously don’t want them to….

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

So I’ll say that it’s also your environment. You can think you’re a chud because you don’t get hit on much, but getting hit on generally depends on being outside alone in public. Yes attractiveness matters too but not as much as you might think.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Huh?

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