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Girl Talk 22w
At what point does it become disrespectful when friends don’t get text back
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Anonymous 22w

i think it depends on the relationship but always give grace it could be a depressive episode. i also hate ts tho if ur not gonna talk to me just don’t be friends with me

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Anonymous 22w

it depends if they don’t communicate about it but if they give a heads up like “hey im overwhelmed and busy but ill respond in a better headspace” i think thats fine

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Anonymous 22w

It depends on if you know they busy or not and how busy they are. If they could reasonably have seen the text and responded twice, then yeah that’s disrespectful.

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Anonymous 22w

Imo it’s kind of case by case, but there’s a certain point where I’m just not gonna reach out anymore except maybe to wish a happy birthday or something and if they want to reconnect that’s on them

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Anonymous replying to -> verysad 22w

just know most people don’t want to ignore you and are probably going through something

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 22w

wdym by responded twice?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

Yeah they could also communicate that though

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Anonymous replying to -> verysad 22w

I’m not sure…it’s been a few weeks I’m gonna reach out but I def feel ignored

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

I’m gonna communicate first, then if they don’t change do that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

Im sure it’s mental health related just don’t jump to assumptions

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Anonymous replying to -> verysad 22w

But it’s five girls? Doesn’t seem likely. I’ll ask but also it’s not fair for me to no one to talk to me for a month for no reason

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

Oh Ive been there and it was bc I had fucked up… review your actions

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Anonymous replying to -> verysad 22w

I haven’t done anything wrong. At least to my knowledge. Also we’re grown. If there’s something that upset you we can talk about it. These are friends I’ve had since childhood

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Anonymous replying to -> verysad 22w

Like what’s a reasonable response time, then double that.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 22w

I’m not even sure. But it’s been like almost a month 🤷🏽‍♀️ granted they were on a trip for a week some of them which doesn’t count, but still

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

Yeah that’s definitely rude.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 22w

Yeah. So I’m gonna reach out. I think they’ll feel bad but I hope so

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