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So l caught my bf wrestling his female coworker. He's not a wrestler he used to wrestle in high school not anymore so l don't know what to make of this 🙂any advice
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Anonymous 4w

What was the context & how did he react when you walked in?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Well he knew I was there I think he wasn’t expecting me to walk on him tho. When I walked out I saw her hugging him from behind and then they took it to the floor ig. Didn’t want to overreact so I just ignored him and he saw me so he called my name and I just ignored him. So he kept going for about 15 more minutes then I went back from the restroom and asked if he can come and help me with the pw for the office cuz I left my stuff there( I just wanted to talk about the wrestling part)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

To which he just said it it and told me to put it in in front of the girl I said ok and walked of, went and paid for an uber then left 🙂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Something I need to mention is he always gets mad and pissy when I talk to men in front of him. He told me many times not to talk to men, smile at them, or respond if I get hit on and next thing Uk he’s wrestling his coworker on the floor!! It’s very hypocritical

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh wow yeah, I’d trust your intuition on this. When men get controlling about attention from other guys like that, they’re usually “projecting” their own guilt about the fact that they’re tempted to cheat / do cheat.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

The fact that he was very physical with this girl despite clearly being uncomfortable with you having way more innocent interactions with other guys is a huge red flag/:

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It took me so much to hold it together and leave mind u I just got my period 10 hours ago!! and when I said bye he said ok go! then he had the AUDACITY to text me what’s my problem!! Blocked him on everything.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Good move girl👏 he’s probably going to try gaslight you now- stay strong

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