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Ppl care too much abt the timeline of a relationship I’ve been with my bf for 4yrs and I don’t want marriage till I’m 26+ but I see so many ppl like “if it takes you longer than two years they’re not the one” sue me for wanting my frontal lobe developed
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Anonymous 3w

Or for wanting established jobs with stable income

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Anonymous 3w

2 years is also crazy tho, for myself by two years I think you should know if you wanna marry that person and then I think you should propose around the 3 to 3.5 year mark

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Anonymous 3w

you’re so valid. i know a couple who started dating at like 16/17 and just got engaged at like 28

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Anonymous 3w

i don't get it either, marriage is 50+ years it should take a little longer then 2 years to commit to that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

She gets it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

You can know it’s who you want to marry without actually wanting to be married yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

exactly!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I’ve known I want to marry him since before we even started dating but if we abided by that timeline I would have gotten married while I was still in college I just graduated this year. I want to be settled in my career and have lived together for at least a year before we start making those kinds of plans

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