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What if I’m pregnant
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Anonymous 11w

if you’re not 100% willing and able to take care of a child… do NOT have it

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Anonymous 11w

Then you get a blessing! :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

absolutely fucking not… maybe if you’re rich and privileged

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

You don’t have to be rich to be economically stable. The way y’all approach women that want kids is so fucking weird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

it’s not fucking weird to want the child to have the best life possible but alright. we childfree women who take this into consideration ironically would be better parents than those who pop out kids willy nilly just to feel morally superior

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Ok I want a house if i'm adopting kids.. and I don't wanna be trapped in a mortgage. It really is much easier when you have at least enough for a house. Which means you have to be rich

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

I'm sorry but it's not nice to intentionally raise a kid in a 1 bd apt but even those are expensive nowadays

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

yeah you’re adding qualifiers when I already said under economic stability so stfu weirdo.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

and the sky is blue … obviously poor people should avoid having children in poverty no correlation to what I said

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

You said you don't have to be rich to be economically stable, but you do kinda have to be rich to own a home and be stable

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

and how did home ownership get brought up. how “rich” which is relative anyway you have to be to buy a home has nothing to do with what I said

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

“stfu weirdo” when i haven’t insulted you once is crazy. but economically stable doesn’t mean shit when babies are as expensive as they are. you really got to have a game plan financially if you genuinely want kids. not enough people do 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

bc you’re putting words in my mouth and going on “what if” spirals about stuff nobody said. yes having babies while poor is a bad idea that’s overly common sense that definitely didn’t need an explanation. stable actually means a lot and by definition means resistant to sudden change. so if they want a child and it’s a blessing to them that shouldn’t garner a negative reaction especially from other women. very odd very weird.

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