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I’ve been used and abused in the past and I found a guy who was treating me right. He told me all he wanted was for me to love him. Well, I told him I did and he said he rlly cares for me but he’s not sure that he loves me yet. Am I being used?
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Anonymous 5w

I can’t say for certain but I’d give it more time. People move at their own paces. But if he’s treating you well and not love bombing you I think you are okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank you!! I’m gonna give it time but I am worried he might just be settling again bc his last relationship was over a yr and he said he didn’t rlly love her even tho he told her he did. Kinda nervous he’ll do that to me too.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If he starts lying to you about it that’s when you need to end it.

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