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has anyone dated a high value figure or someone who was a millionaire or that kinda lifestyle? i need some dating advice and tbh, regular dating advice isn’t gonna work 😭 i’m talking to someone rn so
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Anonymous 2w

can’t compare a regular 9-5 man to the person im taking to so idk what to do

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Anonymous 2w

Idk how you need any sort of rich person advice but ok

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Anonymous 2w

damn it cut off but i said what it felt like you did to me since i opened up too. i thought you hate liars? it was like a 20 second text to read, i didn’t wanna make it long so

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

no, it’s not about the money aspect at all it’s about their psyche and lifestyle.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

So youre just not used to their lifestyle and don’t know how to handle it?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You should get him to take you to the grocery store for a date and buy food (I am semi joking lol my husband did that for me while we were dating cause I was poor as dirt lol)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

because people like that making millions a year are different from us. my cousin who i’m not close with as much used to date well off men when she was younger and said dating is different when you are talking to someone like that vs someone like us years ago when i was younger 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

They’re still just people, but they don’t currently have the stress a lot of other people have. They potentially just “out of the loop” if you will cause they can just afford it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

no i know that and i treat him like any other person, but he’s private like his info and him isn’t online and his friends know not to post him or just on close friends and small glimpses of him. hes used to being used for his outside and his lifestyle, like extremely. tbh he seemed kinda sad about it. he is very very very humble and i liked it a lot.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

he doesn’t work, he retired his parents. when i tell you not like normal rich like i mean rich rich like he’s building old money currently…like wealth.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Makes sense 🤷🏼‍♀️ people probably try to use him for his money all the time. How old is this guy tho ? Like arw yall close in age or nah

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Is a public life something you want or no? What exactly are you struggling with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i honestly don’t really care, i’m actually very private myself and keep my circle small. i don’t post on social media and i enjoy being alone; just like him. he’s 29 and im 24. we’re 5 years apart so we’re closer in age.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i feel like he kinda just made distance between us for no reason. we were fine, he admitted his wrongs and his ugliness in life and never even victimized himself. he didn’t harp on it and tbh i see a lot through a psychological lens so i didn’t feel anything weird. now it’s a 180 and it was like a light switch but the last thing he told me 2 days ago was he was sick and felt like crap and texted me four times about it and since then he hasn’t texted me. his dnd has been on tho for days so 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Dang that’s pretty good for 29. Anyway, he’s kinda ghosted you for a couple days now? I’m sorry to hear that. I really don’t know why he would ignore you tbh unless it’s poor intentions. He could honestly be super super sick but he has the money to get the care needed so I woukdnt worry too much that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

yeah, he may have the flu bc he was just in tampa and there’s an outbreak and he went to canada rn back to his parents. idk either, i’m just scared it is poor intentions and that i feel stupid. i’m gonna hold out till tmrw bc it’s only been like 48 hours and ima say this in the morning

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i posted what ima say tho in the comments look underneath!!

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