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Girl Talk 1d
i feel horrible cause every man i get into a talking stage with is obsessed with me and loves me for the first week but the more time passes they lose interest. the switch up is crazy and genuinely makes me feel like im unlovable or smth
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Anonymous 1d

I think they think you’re not interested so their effort goes down over time

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Anonymous 1d

You probably oversexualize yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Man alert^^ 🚨🚨🚨🚨 this happens to me as well and I’m a virgin who has never and will never send nudes or get sexual in any way with someone until months into the relationship when I feel emotionally attached, stable, secure, and comfortable. I recently had to block a man that I was talking to because he became scarily obsessed with me in 4 days. I was supposed to go on a date with him and I was too scared to go. Think before you speak, you sexist pig.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

noooo like idk I just yap about random shit and they find it “cute” but i think it gets boring really fast or smth

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

That’s why I said “probably” u just need to find someone that can match that shit good luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

You can’t immediately blame the person who keeps getting lovebombed. You can’t just assume that they’re probably oversexualizing themselves or doing something “wrong” for that to happen. You’re still being mean to her now. You’re weird as fuck.

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