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Girl Talk 5w
I took back my ex and I’m not sure if the timing was good or not but I think im happy? I wanted to wait until my career was more established, esp since he’s considering medical school and might move for tht. am I dumb? he asked me on NYE it was so cute🥺
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Anonymous 5w

We can’t tell you bc we don’t know the full context girl

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Anonymous 5w

if ur fine with his life possibly moving even further from u for school. and are fine continuing to be apart for many more yrs, or giving up ur comfort where ur at now to move to be with him (wouldn't rec unless ur really sure about him or love where he has to move to)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

we’ve been on again off again for a while. pretty much long distance for our entire relationship because we went to different schools. he was super mean in the beginning about my dating past and about things like my weight. eventually after my friend told him off I dumped him and started trying to move on and date other ppl and focus on myself. he started therapy and took accountability and we went months no contact. we reconnected in the fall bc he was going to run a half marathon and I wanted

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

to support him. we had a lot of really good conversations and I saw noticeable changes in his behavior, in the way he’s been treating me. it’s been a while of us talking through things and I do feel he’s genuinely working really hard on himself. he’s a good man, he just wasn’t great to me for a while and he owned up to that. we both had our flaws in the relationship so that’s why I’ve been thinking about giving it a real chance. but I don’t fully know if it was the right call or not

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