if you don’t want to sleep with him, let him know that boundary, if you do the time will come or the conversation will come up and just let him know as well. if he’s worth a damn he’ll be more gentle and understanding and won’t make a gross comment. just be sure it’s absolutely 100% something you want to do

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if you plan on sleeping with him i wouldn’t tell him UNLESS it’s something casual and you both feel that way. if it’s serious, i would tell him so he knows it’s important to you. if not, i would avoid it just because guys brag about weird things when they don’t really care for a girl they’re seeing.

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