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Why do straight ppl act so weird about talking or interacting with members of the opposite sex when they’re in relationships? Literally saw this woman say her husband can’t speak to other women unless she’s present? Dumb as hell
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Anonymous 8w

It REEKS of insecurity and immaturity

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Anonymous 8w

it’s completely ridiculous to me as a bi woman😭 like if ur that scared of ur partner having friends, u need to work on ur insecurities and figure out if u actually trust them

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Anonymous 8w

Like I promise you basic social interaction is okay and actually good! Not everyone talking or saying hi is trying to make a pass at the person your dating or marrried to lol

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Anonymous 8w

As a straight woman, I truly never understood the concept of men and women not being able to be friends without any ulterior motives. Like my bad for wanting community with everyone 🫩

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Anonymous 8w

I think for straight women in America, there is a lot of trauma behind their interactions with men; at least from my perspective. I’ve only met a few straight men who view women as people. I know they exist, but they are not as common due to our culture.

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Anonymous 8w

You’ll understand when your married

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Swear to god!!! If you’re that insecure that your partner has a wandering eye or is gonna jeopardize your relationship by some random saying hi maybe it’s worth considering if the relationship needs to continue.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Like why would you date someone who you believe would be willing to cheat that easily in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

And funny thing is like if they dated someone is the bi person supposed to not talk to anyone since they’re attracted to multiple genders? The line of reasoning is so silly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Ignore my typos lmaooo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

EXACTLY that’s part of why i have such an issue with it. the larger part of my problem w it is bc i think it’s rooted in rape culture and like gender essentialism and stuff like that. but yeah it’s a point of view that indicates (to me) a lack of trust in a partner and a need to deconstruct certain ideas abt gender

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Yes! It’s so gender essentialist! There’s this inherent belief that men and women can’t control themselves or are incapable of having deep connections that aren’t romantic/sexual and I think it’s really shitty.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

This is a stupid comment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

You don’t have to agree, people relationship shouldn’t be that much of an issue to you. Honestly if any guy married or not finest want to talk to you who cares. Married couples have many things other people wouldn’t get and even if it’s come off as toxic to you WHO CARES? Be glad it’s not you and move on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

I’m not going back and forth with straight ppl on the weird gender roles they perform. No one forced you to open this thread

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