anyone who starts talking about victims needing to take accountability are just using it as a shield to hide the fact they’re scared it could happen to them. rape happens everywhere. and that’s very scary, but victim blaming won’t help stop it
if you cant be safe and know your limits/do some dumb shit like go to a fraternity with a man you barely know then don’t go out. not always gonna be someone there to save you. gotta take SOME accountability damn