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How to get rid of the desire to be chosen by men no glue no borax
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Anonymous 1d

Set goals that have nothing to do with men, maybe write them down somewhere. Focus your energy on achieving those goals so you get chosen by people who matter to you, like friends and family and professors

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

That’s the thing I have been but the feelings don’t go away I’m so into myself but it gets lonely yk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

No I get it and I feel that way too. When I really miss having a man, I try to get more specific with what I’m craving. Like maybe I want to feel cared for, or I want to feel safe, or I want to feel attractive, etc. And then I remind myself that I can feel those things without a man, either by myself or by reaching out to family and friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Can’t lie it doesn’t always work, but it helps just as a reminder that I have other options

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

You’re so right working through my feelings rn is difficult I want to be picked so bad but I’m having one of those moments I just want someone around

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m sorry :( and I get it. Advice and self help can only go so far. Feel free to DM if you need to vent or lean on friends if they’re awake, loneliness sucks

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