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only referring to women as females as a woman is so trashy and i will not be explaining further
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Anonymous 1d

I was unaware that the term female is offensive to some… like i literally say girl, female, woman, etc. but like why does it matter what other people say? Genuinely asking, why are we getting offended by this?

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Anonymous 1d

What does this mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

That it’s trashy👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

that when women refer to other women as “females” rather than “women” or something similar, they think it’s trashy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Why is it trashy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Do you consider it a classy thing to say? Like just think about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It’s the biological equivalent of women in our society. It dehumanizes women to just being who they are biologically. We don’t call men “males”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

i mean i do but yes exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

any specifies can be female while woman is exclusively the term for female human beings. also you can’t tell me that you don’t hear men especially say “females” to dehumanize us like they deadass use it as a slur

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

species*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

I mean no, I don’t usually hear or take it as a slur and I’m sorry that you take it that way. I mean this respectfully but there are worse things to worry about, like when I actually get called slurs 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

🤦‍♀️ girl no ur missing the point im not saying it IS a slur but men all the time will say females in dehumanizing contexts

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

why would you want to be only be reduced to ur sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

and pick me women usually do too i literally had one of my mutuals constantly say “oh you females want to be me so bad” like it just makes it sound 10% worse than if she were to say women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Oh hell nah 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

I understand your point, but again, why do we care what they say or think? I get it’s dehumanizing, degrading, and literally exhausting but their words are only as powerful as we make them 🤷‍♀️ I’m just saying in this case I don’t think it’s that big of a deal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Regardless, is that not what being called a woman is? Women are females, just human.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Now I’m not saying I want that, I’m just saying the context is what makes or breaks it yk? Like if someone was looking for me and said “oh she’s the female standing in the back over there” I personally don’t see anything wrong with that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

Just a weird way of wording it 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

nobody says it in that context tho😭😭 it’s always to generalize us or to make fun of us and that’s the issue

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Fr, not as bad as “foid” but still used rudely

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

What is foid??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Well i don’t think narrowing it down to the word “female” is doing it justice. I think it’s more the fact men make fun of or degrade us…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22h

it’s less giving them power & more avoiding them because it’s reflective of their attitude towards women (i.e. boiling us down to our body/parts)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

Short for female humanoid. Frequently used by incels

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