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maybe a hot take, but as women we are ABLE to love anybody. you can learn to love any man. it’s important that you choose a man that loves you more than you love him.
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Anonymous 1w

Agree, because if shit goes south you still have yourself and can be strong enough to leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I literally refuse to get with anyone if I’m the obsessed one, I quickly move on because I know someone will be obsessed with ME. That’s how it needs to be

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

MHM and things are less likely to go south tbh. a man that truly loves you and cares about you will do everything he can to make you happy, and your lack of desperation will keep you appealing. it’s important to keep the upper hand in a relationship especially as women bc we’re at such a disadvantage usually

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

THISSS literally. As a woman who craves independence and self success my future partner needs to be obsessed w me bc not to toot my own horn it I likely I will work harder and make more money than them in the future

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

YUP YUP i need to be respected in a relationship as my own person and adult. i do not want to be a stay at home “momma bear” baking fucking bread loaves and wiping slime off of toddlers. i need a paternal man that can care for our kids while im off at work

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