Anonymous #1 2w

no genuinely he literally does everything for her… and she got caught cheating on him

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Anonymous OP 2w

Thats not even a parent at that point, she found a caretaker

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Anonymous #2 2w

no seriously and she’s only staying with him because she makes literally NO money and doesn’t want to move back in with her dad

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Anonymous #3 2w

i mean honestly he doesn’t really clean either their house just stays disgusting and when’s it’s really bad then he cleans it but she will just not do any unless he like yells at her which granted it’s wrong to but i understand his frustration

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Anonymous OP 2w

He shouldn’t yell but does she do anything ????? I manage the whole house and he works, which is what we’ve decided cause we’re partners. What exactly is she bringing to the table here lol

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Anonymous #4 2w

i don’t think so he just does it out of him thinking he can’t get anyone else and thinks she’s going to leave him (she’s been cheating on him, says she’s stopped but idk) they have been together for a long time and he’s gained a lot of weight so i think he thinks if he loses her he won’t get anyone else he flips out on her occasionally because he knows she only with him out of convenience but never ends things with her

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Anonymous #3 2w

not really i love her so much but she’s the laziest person ive ever met. she goes to school 3 days a week but one of the day she only has one 1h long class at night and only works 2 5 hour days a week. i can understand how she would be tired but i feel like it’s not an excuse, that’s just life. i go to school 5 days a week and work and still make time to do everything for myself idk maybe part of it is jealousy because she doesn’t see how good she has it but part of me just feels sorry for her

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Anonymous OP 2w

Well idk that’s on him if he’s that insecure tbh what can u do, it’s like when a girl stays for a guy that’s a total douchebag

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Anonymous OP 2w

I worked and was a full time student and I still managed to contribute to cleaning (roommates) that’s a dream schedule right there. She has plenty of time to do something? Shes gonna struggle in life if she can’t take helping her partner out

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Anonymous #3 2w

i know i feel like the bad thing is she doesn’t think she’s doing anything wrong. i try to say stuff to her like i understand how he could be frustrated after coming home from work all day and seeing you haven’t moved from the couch with dishes piling up and the disgusting floors but she doesn’t ever really seem to get it through her head she thinks he’s just mean

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Anonymous #4 2w

true idk if just makes me see her in a really different way like it gives me the ick that she can be so manipulative to the person she’s supposed to have the most loyalty to

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Anonymous OP 2w

Has he said anything to her? A legit conversation? I kinda doubt she’ll actually understand anytime soon cause she he used to it at this point

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Anonymous #3 2w

he yells at her about it like genuinely everyday honestly i think they are together just because they’ve been together for so long and don’t really know what to do alone i don’t even think they like eachother. she does good for like a day normally then just does back to her old habits. i feel like it’s just not a partnership. your parents should have to yell at you to do the dishes your partner shouldn’t.

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Anonymous OP 2w

That’s sad. He needs to just cut it off since she won’t. It’s not excuse for yelling but I get the frustration

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