
I’m John Doe. I was SA by two of my closest girl friends that I assumed only wanted things platonically. It ruined my relationship and I am too ashamed to speak of it. Not even my psychiatrist knows about it. I advocate for both men and women because even your closest and bestest friends can be snakes
I don’t want to take away from ur trauma bc it’s valid and terrible that those things happened to u but this is girl talk community, and this is usually not a space for men BUT u shouldn’t be ashamed of it bc it’s not ur fault, u didn’t lead them on or give them false hope, u are the victim and don’t let anyone tell u otherwise. I hope u can gain the courage to tell ur psych and others u trust abt this and take the steps you deserve towards recovery. we are here for u ❤️ u are NEVER alone
i hope u find friends and people who make u feel safe and secure, u don’t deserve someone doing something that awful to u. men being SA-ed is not talked abt enough in society, it HAPPENS. ITS REAL. and it’s JUST as disgusting and horrible as when it happens to a woman or a child. it’s not different bc ur a guy, it’s the same, disgusting and horrible evil that people do, there truly is no excuse for SA-ing someone. and recovery is always a bitch. ur never alone tho, remember that ur NEVER alone ❤️