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TW I’m Jane Doe. I was SA over 12 times starting at age 9 by men and a woman. I told my mom; she said there was nothing she could do about it. Now I advocate for other girls. Something can and needs to be done. Every voice deserves to be heard.
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Anonymous 14h

I’m John Doe. I was SA by two of my closest girl friends that I assumed only wanted things platonically. It ruined my relationship and I am too ashamed to speak of it. Not even my psychiatrist knows about it. I advocate for both men and women because even your closest and bestest friends can be snakes

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Anonymous 12h

Your mom might need some jail time

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Anonymous 10h

I am so sorry, you didnt deserve it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

I don’t want to take away from ur trauma bc it’s valid and terrible that those things happened to u but this is girl talk community, and this is usually not a space for men BUT u shouldn’t be ashamed of it bc it’s not ur fault, u didn’t lead them on or give them false hope, u are the victim and don’t let anyone tell u otherwise. I hope u can gain the courage to tell ur psych and others u trust abt this and take the steps you deserve towards recovery. we are here for u ❤️ u are NEVER alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

I agree I just wanted to share because we all are united against this. This is one thing I’m really passionate about and why I love consent

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

i hope u find friends and people who make u feel safe and secure, u don’t deserve someone doing something that awful to u. men being SA-ed is not talked abt enough in society, it HAPPENS. ITS REAL. and it’s JUST as disgusting and horrible as when it happens to a woman or a child. it’s not different bc ur a guy, it’s the same, disgusting and horrible evil that people do, there truly is no excuse for SA-ing someone. and recovery is always a bitch. ur never alone tho, remember that ur NEVER alone ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Awee you’re so sweet! Bruh I lost friends/ they didn’t believe me bc of it and assumed 1) I didn’t want it cause I wasn’t into her 2) I should have just done it or 3) it wasn’t that bad. Unfortunately I got a problem with boundaries and they knew that:/

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

We support you. Please tell someone and get the support and love you need. Man or woman, you did not deserve this. I am so sorry. We love you

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Anonymous replying to -> dark_pink_leafy_green56 7h

Love you too:)

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