Anonymous #1 10w

I think I’m still gonna do it 😐 I don’t want to give him any reason to call me a bad girlfriend.

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Anonymous OP 10w

girl if it makes you a bad gf to not make him a damn battlefront 6 basket, what kind of boyfriend does it make him for never making you a basket of any kind?

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Anonymous #1 10w

He wouldn’t actually get mad at me or call me a bad girlfriend for not making a basket lol, but idk I just don’t want him to have any standards I can’t live up to

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Anonymous OP 10w

sounds like there’s a very obvious double standard here…

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Anonymous #1 10w

I think so, but he thinks the double standard is against him. He doesn’t like the way society generally “treats women better” so I think he’s using me as reparations or something. I don’t get it.

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Anonymous OP 10w

Okay it sounds TERRIBLE when I say it that way. He’s really a good person it’s jus hard to explain 😭

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Anonymous OP 10w

ma’am i think you meant exactly what you said. he sounds like he wants you to cater to him bc he feels like he’s at a loss in society compared to women. that’s kinda weird. but you know him a hell of a lot better than i do and it’s your relationship, but this is clearly something that bothers you, otherwise you wouldn’t have posted this. you should consider what’s best for YOU and YOUR peace of mind too girl. wishing the best for you, friend 💕

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Anonymous OP 10w

If you are having to explain yourself as to why you’re bf is a good bf then he’s not actually a good bf

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Anonymous #1 10w

Tbh the best thing for my peace of mind would be just making the damn basket 😭

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Anonymous #2 10w

He is a good bf he’s just not a very giving bf. But it kinda works out well, I’m the giver and he’s the receiver in basically every aspect of the relationship

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Anonymous OP 10w

Relationship are a balance of giving and receiving tho

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Anonymous OP 10w

Do you really want to be the one always giving in the relationship, having to bury your expectations and desires while also feeling obligated to fulfill his? Really ask yourself that question.

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Anonymous OP 10w

Girl pls imagine yourself married to this man and pregnant with his kid and you’re still having to give and give and give and all he does is take and ask for more! Ik it seems fine in the moment but if you’re thinking of being with this guy long term pls think about what’s best for you (obviously idk if you want to get married or have kids it’s just an example more than anything else)

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