Girl Talk on Sidechat | My bf has never gotten me a boo basket or gift basket of any kind even though I give him several throughout the 5 years we’ve been together. And now he’s sending me videos about girls making their bf a “battlefront 6 basket”

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My bf has never gotten me a boo basket or gift basket of any kind even though I give him several throughout the 5 years we’ve been together. And now he’s sending me videos about girls making their bf a “battlefront 6 basket”

35 upvotes, 17 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "My bf has never gotten me a boo basket or gift basket of any kind even though I give him several throughout the 5 years we’ve been together. And now he’s sending me videos about girls making their bf a “battlefront 6 basket”"

Anonymous 4w

tell your son it’s time to grow up pls

Anonymous 4w

Girl stand tf up. What in the hell? You don’t wanna be a “bad gf?” You’re “the giver and he’s the receiver?” This is either really successful rage bait or you’ve really convinced yourself you’re happy in a crap relationship.

Anonymous 4w

GIRL DUMP HIS ASS!!!!!!!

Anonymous 4w

break up with him

Anonymous

#1 4w

I think I’m still gonna do it 😐 I don’t want to give him any reason to call me a bad girlfriend.

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Anonymous

OP 4w

girl if it makes you a bad gf to not make him a damn battlefront 6 basket, what kind of boyfriend does it make him for never making you a basket of any kind?

Anonymous

#1 4w

He wouldn’t actually get mad at me or call me a bad girlfriend for not making a basket lol, but idk I just don’t want him to have any standards I can’t live up to

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Anonymous

OP 4w

sounds like there’s a very obvious double standard here…

Anonymous

#1 4w

I think so, but he thinks the double standard is against him. He doesn’t like the way society generally “treats women better” so I think he’s using me as reparations or something. I don’t get it.

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Okay it sounds TERRIBLE when I say it that way. He’s really a good person it’s jus hard to explain 😭

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Anonymous

OP 4w

ma’am i think you meant exactly what you said. he sounds like he wants you to cater to him bc he feels like he’s at a loss in society compared to women. that’s kinda weird. but you know him a hell of a lot better than i do and it’s your relationship, but this is clearly something that bothers you, otherwise you wouldn’t have posted this. you should consider what’s best for YOU and YOUR peace of mind too girl. wishing the best for you, friend 💕

Anonymous

OP 4w

If you are having to explain yourself as to why you’re bf is a good bf then he’s not actually a good bf

Anonymous

#1 4w

Tbh the best thing for my peace of mind would be just making the damn basket 😭

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Anonymous

#2 4w

He is a good bf he’s just not a very giving bf. But it kinda works out well, I’m the giver and he’s the receiver in basically every aspect of the relationship

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Relationship are a balance of giving and receiving tho

Anonymous

OP 4w

Do you really want to be the one always giving in the relationship, having to bury your expectations and desires while also feeling obligated to fulfill his? Really ask yourself that question.

Anonymous

OP 4w

Girl pls imagine yourself married to this man and pregnant with his kid and you’re still having to give and give and give and all he does is take and ask for more! Ik it seems fine in the moment but if you’re thinking of being with this guy long term pls think about what’s best for you (obviously idk if you want to get married or have kids it’s just an example more than anything else)