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Girl Talk 1d
So tired of my male friend using me as a therapist and I told him nicely to not unload on me all the time and he stopped speaking to me for a week🙁
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Anonymous 1d

and then you stopped speaking to him forever right??

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Anonymous 1d

it isn’t, but he’s obviously showing what type of friend he is. I have a best friend of 7 years and don’t unload all my shit onto her bc I know how that feels…

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Anonymous 1d

I had a guy friend like this… key word HAD. That shit is tiring, he had to go.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

No, he’s been there for me a few key times and vice versa, I just wish he had an outlet that wasn’t me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

The downvote is crazy😭😭😭guys I’m asking for advice and cutting off my friend of several years isn’t as easy as you think it is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i fear he’s already softlaunched cutting you off when he didn’t talk to you for a week after you set a boundary 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I keep my distance from him now, we were tight but unfortunately not anymore bc he doesn’t respect boundaries

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

True…..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

that’s hurtful tho i’m sorry OP :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

It issss and ive done so much for him and he cannot even be bothered to do the same for me…this has happened with other ppl too

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