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I wish my man would try to make a bit of chemistry between us sometimes. I always try and spice things up but I want him to try sometimes too. I want to feel the spark of something fresh or unexplored between us. I feel like it hasn’t been there recently
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Anonymous 17h

Also relationships flow to high and low stages of chemistry so I woudnt worry too much especially if you’ve been dating for a while

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Anonymous 1d

Buy a new toy

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Anonymous 18h

Tell him this!! Talk it out with him and explain how you feel. Then you guys can discuss how you want to respark the relationship :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

I’m looking for human interaction with my man, not another piece of silicon…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

lowkey to use with him though…. a thought! or a new hobby could be fun?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

No yeah I mean buy one to use with ur man lol my man gives me money to pick one out he can use on me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

It adds spice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Adding toys or things when being intimate can add intimacy, it’s nothing to be ashamed about it majorly changed my sex with my boyfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Oh you’re right okok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

OHHHHH ok!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Thank you guys!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

i’m going to go shopping for them w my boyfriend soon and im excited haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

No because me and my bf were flirting over text and randomly just sends me 150 and says “treat yourself, but a new toy for me to try on you, lingerie, anything it’s a gift for both of us” I legit squealed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

I would start small with like a cock ring (sounds weird but trust) or vibrator

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

But also I recommend having a conversation with him about what your feeling so you don’t accidently build resentment, he might be feeling a similar way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

omg that’s so cute #needthat… we’ve been talking about picking out lingerie together too, we’re just long distance atm and want to be together when we do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

I did and he just said he understood and whatnot :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Has he not tried to talk with you about how you guys can get your spark back? Or did he take it like a criticism?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

He didn’t really say much but he’s also at work… 😓 I’ll talk to him tonight more about ut

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Okay that sounds good! Definitely just have an open discussion about it ^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

I definitely will. Thank you, love💕

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Ofc!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

I would also try to do it not through test maybe all call if you can’t in person so you can what his tone and if he immediate gets defensive then I think you might need to do some deeper thinking

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

omg yes, my ex bf and I did that last vday and it was so fun!! We went to VS and played “build a babe” (after going to build a bear workshop, hence the naming) and got cute lingerie for that night it was lovely

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