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Having a narcissist & pathological liar for an ex sucks cause it means I’m questioning things I’d always said I’d never question about a person. Like- are they really polyamorous or did they just like having multiple peoples attention on them at once?
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Anonymous 20w

whats the difference 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

like doesnt being poly inherently mean you want multiple peoples attention at once? pls correct me if not im genuinely confused and dont know

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

If they were polyamorous, it would mean that they had genuine romantic feelings for multiple people they were dating at the same time, it wouldn’t just be about attention, it would be about love. If it turns out they just liked attention, it’s possible that they didn’t actually have feelings for some of the people they were with and just used the fact that those people liked them to fuel their ego, get things bought for them, get attention, etc. Hope this made sense!

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