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crazy to think i really didn’t love my ex despite being together for 2 years. i was lonely and started dating him and yeah overtime i began to love him but more like a friend.
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Anonymous 5w

Girl I feel you I kept looking for guys because I wanted to be wanted and it would turn into this spiral of me being good and sweet but still silently repulsed and angered by them and now my relationship with love is all messed up. Not really the same situation but I understand where you’re coming from

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Anonymous 5w

i loved him for being my best friend, but i thought that was also romantic love and it wasn’t. i was always grossed out kissing him or having sex. i was still a good gf though and bought almost everything, he barely took me out on dates and rarely got me flowers.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m scared to REALLLYYY love someone bc I’ve only had that with one person and then one day I woke up and didn’t love them at all, all the attraction was gone and I never understood why and have been scared of it to this day

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

no i know exactly what you mean. i mean, i truly knew deep down i didn’t love my ex in that way. i think i was lying to myself because i liked the idea of a relationship. he was a bummy bf, didn’t do shit for me and never took me out and was extremely manipulative so overtime my resentment built. i can’t even look at him without wanting to genuinely punch him, im not kidding you. like i would love to punch him in the face as hard as i can because of the amount of despise i feel for this man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

real love shouldn’t feel like work or overthinking and it should just happen. it’s kinda hard to describe because i don’t think there’s a way to. once it happens, it happens.

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