Anonymous #2 10w

they wanna have their cake and eat it too😭

899

Comment Deleted

0

I literally just affirmed his gender he’s trans ftm if he’s a guy he shouldn’t be on the girls talk page 😭😭

527

Gay men, trans men, even if they’re lgbtq they’re still men they shouldn’t be on the page if it’s exclusive to women. I’m not transphobic I’m literally nb 😭

467

LMFAOOO baby we support our trans ppl, so you ain’t a girl no more 😭😭

354

Anonymous #9 10w

LMAOOOOO gender affirming misandry 😌😌😌

244

Anonymous #2 10w

are trans women okay to be here 🥺

315

Anonymous #12 10w

Hell yeah!! Get in here!

276

Anonymous OP 10w

🥺🥺🥺

88

Anonymous #12 10w

I'm Mtf too! I'm glad to finally be on a page with girls instead of getting invited to a bunch of guy things lol

181

Anonymous #12 10w

Of course?? You’re a women!!!!

97

Anonymous #9 10w

IM CRYINGGG

71

Comment Deleted

0

Booo

46

Comment Deleted

0

what are you talking about 😭 I genuinely don’t know what you’re trying to say

68

Anonymous #12 10w

still women! ofc girlie 💕

48

Anonymous #12 10w

Yassss please stay 🫶🏾 #protectthedolls

78

Anonymous #2 10w

So you’re not a girl? Why are you here

83

Anonymous #20 10w

I present fem and am usually referred to as a girl idk i can leave tho 😭😭

62

Literally doesn’t matter. He’s a man so he needs to leave

56

Ew GTFO of here with the transphobia. Nasty asf. Also he’s ftm so like make up your mind on if he can stay or not lmao

22

Anonymous #12 10w

you ARE a woman so FUCK yes

34

Anonymous #22 10w

there’s a whole lgbtqia+ yikyak too like 😭

27

Anonymous #36 10w

fr this is girl talk not girl+ talk

25

Anonymous #22 10w

no da and like if i say to a gay man he is not ‘one of the girls’ because he still has the privilege of being a man and if he truly wanted to, he could pass as straight.. im the evil one. like you can be friends with women as a (gay) man and be invited into spaces with women, no ones saying u cant, but if us women explicitly state they want one space to themselves.. cant we have it?

15

Comment Deleted

0

Yeah wrong. No need to be a POS. How bout you GTFO

8

Just come out baby, projecting isn’t healthy

5

Anonymous #41 10w

Eat my ass

-18

Anonymous #2 10w

It’s okay dw!! non-binaries have some leeway, especially if you’re femme presenting/leaning <3

35

Anonymous #12 10w

OFC YOURE ONE OF USSS

6

Anonymous #39 10w

We don’t want you

15

Anonymous #23 10w

It's funny that you say this because this is the exact opposite of what happens in real life where cishet fruit flies attract actual straight men into the queer safe spaces they were lucky enough to be escorted into in the first place...

6

Anonymous #34 10w

GAY MEN AND CISHET WOMEN SHARE THE SAME OPPRESSOR WHY ARE WE FIGHTING??

-9

Anonymous #43 10w

No gay men are still men and should not be in here. Why is it such a problem for women to want one space where it’s just us? Why do they feel the need to force themselves into our spaces

22

Anonymous #28 10w

No what? gay men and straight women don't share the same oppressor? Are you saying gay men oppress themselves?

-5

Anonymous #28 10w

If anyone is forcing themselves into spaces they don't belong it's cishet women in queer bars...

-3

Anonymous #43 10w

Gay men still oppress women… and yes gay men do oppress themselves. Are you not in queer spaces? Bc it’s full of misogyny and toxic masculinity. They don’t need to be in women only spaces

15

Anonymous #43 10w

What a fucking lie lmao. As a lesbian I can’t even go to any of the lesbian bars around me bc ITS ALL GAY MEN

15

Anonymous #28 10w

That's like objectively not true. have you ever been in a queer space?

-3

Anonymous #43 10w

I’m a fucking lesbian….. so yeah I have

15

Anonymous #28 10w

How you queer AND pro hierarchy/binary??

-3

Anonymous #43 10w

Can I have a complete sentence please

4

Anonymous #28 10w

Are you racist too? Tf?

-5

Anonymous #39 10w

who dis man… OMFG 😭😭😭 gtfo shrimp dih

11

Anonymous #43 10w

How tf would I even know your fucking race are you kidding me? This is an anonymous app…. Use your head bro

14

Anonymous #28 10w

i wrote a complete sentence. You just didn't like it. All prim and proper pip pip cheerio ya fuckin colonizer

-4

Anonymous #28 10w

Wait can you use ur head you acting like if all gay men have to be some frat bro and only be masculine, when there’s fem guys or twinks that’s that aren’t evil and like that… like stop drinking ur own squirt ur losing iq

12

Anonymous #43 10w

You’re weird asf. I literally still have no idea what race you are tf? This shit is weird ass behavior… and women deserve spaces for just them. As gay men deserve spaces just for them

12

Anonymous #4 10w

I literally never fucking said gay men had to be masculine…. Let’s use our brains here. I said toxic masculinity exists in their group too. As in yes they literally do oppress each other bc we are all victims of the patriarchy….. including them…. Also are you a gay man bc why tf are you saying that word when gay men hate it when women say it tf?

15

Anonymous #28 10w

Do you even know how matrilineal society works?

-3

Anonymous #39 10w

It's homophobia being disguised as misandry ngl

2

Anonymous #28 10w

bitch now we can’t both imply each other so check mate, because you didn’t use ur words better enough and you were trying to imply that gay men are still evil and yet not section off the other good part of it, you are the most biased stud ever on this app discharge sipper. And also I am a girl with a twink bestie

7

Anonymous #28 10w

I'll give you a hint: the answer is not hierarchy or binary essentialism!

-3

Anonymous #4 10w

I’m a fucking femme so watch your mouth. You’re being incredibly homophobic holy shit. Also that’s like saying “I have a poc friend so I can say the n word. Not on the same level but that doesn’t give you a fucking pass tf?

12

Anonymous #43 10w

I literally don’t give a fuck. Women deserve women only spaces and gay men deserve gay men only spaces….

11

Anonymous #44 10w

It’s texting how can one know how a gay man texts… sorry I don’t fit your stereotype

12

Anonymous #28 10w

You don't give a fuck about liberation from gender-based oppression?? Division is literally cause of this problem. You can't use it as a solution 💀

11

Anonymous #39 10w

Can I twerk on your headlights?

1

Anonymous #43 10w

I’m a victim of SA and if I want to have a safe space where it’s just me and other women and no men bc it makes me feel safe to have that occasionally is totally fucking fine! Everyone on planet earth deserves to have a safe space and this weird war you have waged against that is weird asf

-1

Anonymous #28 10w

There are SA forums…

14

Anonymous #28 10w

um idgaf because you have the audacity to literally challenge the feminist and feminism, because you’re not making peace yet ur choosing be a big fat target and a unequal hoe to our gay twinkies besties. And 2nd of all that’s a shitty comparison to the n word, because I’m a girl and you don’t KNOW MY SEXUALITY HOE!? like keep calm and go drink matcha because ur doing to much.

6

Anonymous #44 10w

What does that even mean 😭

3

Anonymous #39 10w

Dude I don’t have a problem that you’re gay. Let’s just chat it up in the LGBTQIA+ thread and do whatever but this is literally called girl talk and some of us just want a woman only space and that’s ok! And you yourself deserve to have a safe space like that too! Like women shouldn’t be going into gay bars bc that’s your space

13

Comment Deleted

0

Anonymous #28 10w

You know what your lowkey right except for the part where girlies can’t go into gay bars like trust I be bringing my home girls up in that club.

9

Anonymous #44 10w

I think the point she was making is that she feels safer in spaces that don’t include men, and seeing as men can also be victims of SA, theyd likely be in the SA forums. She prefers a space where shes less likely to encounter a man!

12

Anonymous #39 10w

And if you’re ok with that that’s fine! I don’t even see the problem with the man from the original post asking to be here 🤷‍♀️ it’s just once someone says no that should be respected. Nothing wrong with asking and if you’re chill having girls in your space hell yeah! I just used that as an example bc someone above used it

10

Anonymous #2 10w

Like you just said you’re a guy…

11

Anonymous #39 10w

What mean even does

-1

Anonymous #43 10w

theres a difference between not caring about liberation and wanting to have a space where others (here its women) are going through the same oppression as you. gay men get different treatment than a straight woman, gay women get different treatment than straight women.. same applies to str8/queer POC thats why both LGBTQIA spaces and Women only spaces exist—to give people who identify with the named oppressed group a safe space to voice their oppression experiences and find commonality.

16

Anonymous #35 10w

and spaces for POC* (forgot to mention that)

18

Anonymous #35 10w

Thank you. That has been my point this whole time and thank you for understanding that 🫶

10

Anonymous #39 10w

its nothing against queer people!! its just that SPECIFICALLY queer men have other spaces they can be in. a MAN is a MAN, just because he’s gay doesnt make him less of a man? If a fem percieved/presenting nonbinary person wants in the space? so be it. a trans woman? let her in. a gay woman? cool! its just that this is a space for femme identifying folks/women. nothing against gay people!!!

18

Anonymous #35 10w

Well babes, we understand that but they got a sharp and rude ass tongue that wanna victim blame, and literally make a sob story in my faces, I’m still keeping my gay twink, that flop is just acting like a mess

4

Anonymous #4 10w

While you’re actively being homophobic. Delusional asf

7

Comment Deleted

0

You literally called me a “discharge chugger” after I said I was a lesbian….. and just called me bringing up my SA as a reason why women would want women only spaces a “sob story” also watch what? Like you can do shit tf? Is this 2016 and we are acting all scary in the cafeteria rn?

12

Hi

-1

Anonymous #4 10w

yeah theres definitely a way to go about the discussion here, but like all im saying is some communities like to stick together and keep it for themselves and theres no reason to shame them for it imo, yk?

13

Anonymous #2 10w

Wait so can trans girls join

6

Anonymous #48 10w

What if you like got outta here

6

Anonymous #35 10w

is he not a trans man? who has gone through (and could very well continue to go through) the challenges of womanhood and being perceived as a woman, female, or both?

1

Anonymous #28 10w

KEEP following you. And men are just going to keep ruining ur life, just like a cycle again, and again and again. How about ur dumbass create harmony with a gay twink besties and life can go smoothly again you no friend tampon nose weird. (Bye why was my msg so long)

-2

Anonymous #50 10w

Bruh I hope you realized there’s a huge ass fight in the comment section

-1

Anonymous #4 10w

Omg lmaoooo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

1

Anonymous #46 10w

read the fifth word of your statement. there’s your answer

13

Anonymous #45 10w

I never joined this just popped up

3

Anonymous #48 10w

Holy shit there’s a lot going on here. Nvm you ladies have fun

10

Anonymous #2 10w

mind u there’s trans communities

7

Anonymous #3 10w

By technically, not have their cake and eat it too. 🤪🤪🤪

20

Anonymous #42 10w

um no, still not birthed a female.

-12

Anonymous #55 10w

I am afab 🥸

22

Anonymous #2 10w

why do you think you get to be here for having been afab, but others couldn't, genuinely?

6

Anonymous #53 10w

lol the original post was what I posted just without the circles and arrows

1

Anonymous #49 10w

While I identify as nonbinary I still experience life as a woman (ex societal treatment and expectations, not being out to some people, afab, etc) someone who is a trans man experiences life as a man. While it’s easier for them to empathize for having lived the life previously, currently they don’t unless they’re not out idk. I would leave this community if people weren’t comfortable with me here, because I don’t want to intrude

10

Anonymous #2 10w

but like what do we know about this guy? it seems like every time trans men are brought up online that they fully pass as frat guys or something, but we don't know how he's treated socially, if he's out, and how he experiences life

11

Anonymous #2 10w

there’s no guarantee “a trans man experiences life as a man” lmfaoo u dk this guy !!!

-1

Anonymous #49 10w

That’s true when I assume I make an ass out of u and me 😞

9

Anonymous #56 10w

i worry downvotes think i’m transphobic — i’m saying this As A Transmasc Nonbinary Person. I’ve been living my life as a “woman” bcs i’m not medically transitioning yet . could very much be the same for the man who made that original post

4

Anonymous #20 10w

Be so fr fem and masc presenting nb people exist (as someone who is dating a masc nb person)

22

Anonymous ouijathefox 10w

And that is the only thing I'll say on here as a trans man because I respect y'all and have no desire to be associated with a girls group (ily y'all tho it's nothing personal)

12