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am i trippin? i keep getting downvoted for being mad that my friend keeps texting me about how she misses me but whenever i try to hangout she always brushes me off. i always see her online playing fornite w her bf but she “doesnt have time” to play w me?
8 upvotes, 7 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "am i trippin? i keep getting downvoted for being mad that my friend keeps texting me about how she misses me but whenever i try to hangout she always brushes me off. i always see her online playing fornite w her bf but she “doesnt have time” to play w me?"
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Anonymous 2w

i’m happy she’s happy but whats the point of constantly telling me she misses me and wants to hangout if she doesn’t want to? am i not allowed to be upset? shes so busy with him that she barely texts me anymore, like only once a month and its only to say “hi i miss you, lmk when youre free so we can hangout” and when i do she’s either brushes me off or “never free” yet she spends hours playing fortnite and minecraft everyday w him.

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Anonymous 2w

Ngl the people downvoting you are the people who think it’s okay to ignore their friends when they’re in a relationship bc they’re self centered and think you should be around for them and not vice versa. That’s kinda just it, they’re weird

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Anonymous 2w

yea , why are u being downvoted?? girl i’ll say it straight, she doesn’t value you as much as you do. she doesn’t want to hangout with you and she won’t. people say they miss people and mean it but won’t go out and meet up, that’s just something people do, it doesn’t mean they don’t like you, it means that you aren’t worth it enough for them to even get ready and go out. i wouldn’t waste my time asking her to hangout, her priorities clearly are gaming and other things

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Anonymous 2w

talk to her about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i have, she literally just brushes me off. also anytime we do manage to hang (it’s been like half a year) she’s literally on her phone most of the time texting. it’s so fucking annoying bc we were really close and now we barely even talk.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

oh girl i'd just stop replying to her tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

yea errr, i really wouldn’t waste my time on wanting to hangout with her. to people like her it’s easier said than done. i would ask other friends that id think possibly would want to hangout with me, bcz it’s surprising how much people will go out if someone’s just asks

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