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Guys encourage me, to tell my parents that I have a boyfriend. Am scared idk why, cause they are chill. I just don’t want to lie to them anymore
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Anonymous 2w

as someone who feels nauseous and physically ill after lying- i feel you. telling them is a million times better than them finding out on their own. i was in a similar situation where i had a gf (wlw, dw) for about a year and a half before i told them. after i did, i felt so much better. my parents are chill as well and understood why i kept it from them, if you want more advice please feel free to dm me

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Anonymous 2w

i’d also like to share a favorite analogy of mine: lying is like holding a glass of water. at first it doesn’t feel like anything, but after a while it starts to get tiring and takes a toll on you. the longer you hold it (lie) the worse it gets. being truthful is like finally setting down that glass of water.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

So I told them. They are happy for me. A bit and that I lied. But still they just want me to be careful. And all that but their happy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

how do you feel about telling them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Part of them feels relieved. But still guilty that I lied to them about certain things. But I told them all honesty forward. And that he treats me right

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