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Almost 20 and never had a bf😛
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Anonymous 11w

Girl dw that’s chill— having previous relationships can help you learn about what works and doesn’t work for u in a relationship but they also often cause you to carry extra baggage into ur next relationship, plus having had no bf is always better than having had a shitty bf, so no breakups is 100% a win

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Anonymous 11w

Girl I don’t even count the week long one I had in highschool bc it was a week and he was grounded so he didn’t even have my number. He got caught watching elementary schoolers getting on the bus a week after we broke up. He was an only child.

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Anonymous 11w

I’m freee

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

So as far as I’m concerned I’ve never had a boyfriend either and I might be gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I won’t tell u “oh the perfect guy is waiting for u and you’ll find him when the time is right” bc I honestly think that’s a load of ba (finding a person that ur compatible with and being mutually interested is crazy luck imo) But u can always get more serious abt dating if u rlly want a bf— I know it’s sort of cliche advise but I think focusing on urself and expanding ur social life in general the best way to end up in a happy and healthy long term relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Lmaoooo wait wouldn’t u know fs if u were gay tho? Like if u are attracted to other women then ur fs at least a little gay— sorry genuine question, I’m straight and Ive always know I was straight bc Ive only ever been sexually attracted to men (unfortunately)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Lowkey I agree that didn’t count it was like the tutorial for the free trial

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Yesss 😛 focusing on college/career along w being independent is the best thing we can do for ourselves. If a dude comes then it’s chill and if he doesn’t, we are still gonna live our best lives

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Yes! Exactly! 🔥🔥

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I’m definitely bisexual right now bc I am very much attracted to women but honestly while I tend to lean more towards men when thinking about dating I think it might be bc men are more easily available but the longer I look at and listen to them talk the more I realize that I don’t really like them. I like the idea of masculinity but I like it better on women. Idk if that makes sense sorry.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I love this and that’s how I’m describing it from now on

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