
Girl dw that’s chill— having previous relationships can help you learn about what works and doesn’t work for u in a relationship but they also often cause you to carry extra baggage into ur next relationship, plus having had no bf is always better than having had a shitty bf, so no breakups is 100% a win
I won’t tell u “oh the perfect guy is waiting for u and you’ll find him when the time is right” bc I honestly think that’s a load of ba (finding a person that ur compatible with and being mutually interested is crazy luck imo) But u can always get more serious abt dating if u rlly want a bf— I know it’s sort of cliche advise but I think focusing on urself and expanding ur social life in general the best way to end up in a happy and healthy long term relationship
I’m definitely bisexual right now bc I am very much attracted to women but honestly while I tend to lean more towards men when thinking about dating I think it might be bc men are more easily available but the longer I look at and listen to them talk the more I realize that I don’t really like them. I like the idea of masculinity but I like it better on women. Idk if that makes sense sorry.