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Supposed to sublease girls apt..Went to meet the gals today and their bfs pulled up😐 they didn’t ask me any questions, I asked. Couldn’t rlly have a real roomate talk and I only follow them on IG but I need to sign
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Dm them to set up a real FT call
Move into other unit, vet other ppl
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Anonymous 2w

if they aren’t even trying to be friendly gtfo

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Anonymous 2w

honestly this situation is kind of weird, like they knew u were pulling up way ahead of time im assuming since they set up a time to meet with u, but suddenly out of no where their bfs pull up and ur not able to have a real convo with them?? like they couldn't ask their bfs to wait till u were gone or anything?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

unless you’re in a time crunch

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 2w

this is honestly a red flag imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I am but I’m not will to sacrifice my happiness

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 2w

She let me in and said oh btw my boyfriends here

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

its a way bigger red flag than i thought then, wtf did she have her bf over for yalls first time meeting for? does he live there??

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 2w

She’s moving out but her guy friend was there too, it sounds like the Boyfs come over a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Idk how to feel about that because I’m social but like I also don’t wanna wake up to ur boyf when I go to the kitchen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

were they transparent at all about how often the bfs come over or if they stay over at all? because i feel like thats an important piece of info and i def get u. If u dont feel comfortable with the idea of their bfs being around a lot (which sounds like its the case) i say look for another place, ur comfort is important! especially when it comes to a space you'll be spending most of ur time in

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 2w

We had a phone call that I asked to have bc of earlier and they were basically like no we don’t have any questions for u (didn’t ask me anything even personal) and I get it they’re seniors so they’re ready to go but I need ppl to chill/ go out with who give a shi yk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

They said we’re going to do out own thing / however, they’re all on the dance team(entire floor) so I could meet ppl that way. It’s just an issue of the guys always being over and them not really communicating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

yeah i agree, if they're not really communicating to the extent that you would like to see from them now they'll prob only communicate even less when you actually move in

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