Yall, I’m struggling with my bf to get him to man up and pull his half of the relationship. He says it’s sexist to man up and pull his weight that he doesn’t have to, and he’s constantly starting arguments and claiming it takes 2 when I express concerns.
it’s not worth it to you to suffer from his lack of effort
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Anonymous21w
dump him
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Anonymous21w
leave. you can built trust, you can grow love. you can't pull effort out of his ass
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Anonymous21w
Please help. What should I do? Other than prolly break up with the him cause at this point I’m over it!!
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Anonymous21w
dump him !!!! i’ll be his replacement (20F) /j
for real dump him
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Anonymous#121w
That’s how I feel, but like it’s so hard to do it when I know he’ll just trash talk me to everybody and their momma and blame me for everything like now as the problem
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AnonymousOP21w
there’s always someone whose story paints you as a villain, don’t let that stop you from doing what you need to do