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i need advice i told my mom back in may i was going to ct for a weekend for a bday party and she said okay. well now the weekend has come and i just realized i haven’t mentioned it since that day. how do i drop the bomb again without her getting upset
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Anonymous 21w

if she said okay the first time why would she get upset when you remind you, i think you’ll be okay

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Anonymous 21w

would it work if u casually act as if you expect her to remember? with my mom sometimes if i ask again she’s like wtf u didn’t tell me no you can’t but if i act with full confidence that i told her she feels bad for forgetting and pretends she remembers… sometimes when u act as if u have nothing to hide they believe it but if you come up to them already scared they sense your fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

she’s actually insane and i have a feeling she’s gonna claim i “never told her”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

like if you subtly ask for her opinion on a birthday present she’ll be like whose birthday is it? and u can be like ___’s remember? i told you about her party in ct on [day]? rather than approaching her like hey i have to go to x party this weekend

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

i’ve done that before and she blamed me for never telling her even though i 100% did

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